Dear Beginners, your spirit guides love you…
Common experiences: My angels or guides hate me. My angels and guides are not supportive. I had a terrifying experience with my angels or guides. I think my spirit guides are actually demons.
Try to honestly catch yourself whenever you fall into these traps…..
please do not fret, you are only misinterpreting the essence of what they say to you, your angels and guides are never hostile – they love you dearly and will only say supportive and loving things, it is your own mind which misconstrues the situation, your ego and logic mind are creating the negativity, as well as blowing it out of proportion. It is not them; you still have a long way to go in your learning process of communicating and receiving their messages without letting your own mind interfere.
Please do not be so hard on yourself, this journey of learning to understand them properly takes patience and growth, and we all mistaken what our guides say at times, even those who have years of experience or natural gifts. When communicating with them, we must have our minds, souls, and hearts open, and have none of our own thoughts and shadows with us.
Read this article “How To Know Your Spirit Guide Is Real” for more information on how to tell the difference between your mind and your spirit guide during negative experiences. http://stellarbeam.com/how-to-know-your-spirit-guide/
When we begin to open up a spiritual relationship, often our shadows come to the surface so we can let go, move on and move on to higher stages of our spiritual growth. And this is a good thing, perhaps you can use this opportunity to work on what is bothering you, and release those shadows. At times our angels and guides, will test us for our spiritual growth, by supporting us, and having us presented with some of our fears so we can get through them. Many people often do not like these processes.
You were not in an open enough space to truly comprehend what they were telling you. When a angel or guide says it is your fault you are suffering (they would never word it like that only your mind would), it means a lot more than that, it means they have faith that we can let go, it means we do have control over our situation, that we have the support to change.
They urge us on to work on our “stuff”, they do not view obstacles as negative, they view them as amazing tools to bring us higher on our spiritual path. We have to change our perspectives and be in a positive head space, or we will always misconstrue situations. Our angels never talk down to us. When they give us advice on what to do, it is always for our own good, and they are supportive about it. If it sounds negative, you are misreading it. It sounds to me like you also got yourself into a negative space by asking yourself awful questions, expecting awful answers.
We all make mistakes, and that is life. Our angels and spirit guides do not judge our mistakes, they know how it is humans act, they are supportive, and in fact they usually just have a good laugh when we make mistakes, they are very loving and sometimes humorous, and they much appreciate it when we are able to see from that view and are able to laugh at ourselves once in awhile. I assure you, even if you accidentally punch one of them in the face trying to astral travel, it may embarrass you, you may feel so bad, but later on when you can really hear them, you will sit down with them, and just laugh with them about all the mistakes you ever made. They are patient, they have unconditional love, they have witnessed more horrible mistakes than you could ever make yourself, and they don’t mind, it’s not the way they are, they are there to guide. There are times they may try to urge you to see how “small” your “problems” are, but they know you still have free will, they will never force us into anything, they will only suggest, and there may be frustrating times they take you into your shadows to support you through them, they are guides, loving guides, they can help us on our processes.
Been there done that, been where you are, and I’ve also had worse misconceptions, (one time i even falsely accused my angel of being a demon) I’ve shouted profanities at them, I’ve gotten into huge battles, complaints, being a real jerk, not understanding why they do the things they do, thinking at times they were acting with no sympathy, I was horribly stubborn and not reading them right, they had to become very upfront and lay it down to me, there were times they made me cry, there were times they made me laugh, there were times they pulled out my shadows from me and held a mirror to my face and showed me abruptly what I was doing wrong because I was so stubborn and not wanting to see it, but it was all part of MY spiritual growth and it was necessary for me to get through, it was not their fault. I got through it and realized how much of a jerk I was being, was able to let go, laugh at it, apologized to them numerous times, and comprehended everything they do is out of love, and for my highest good. Times when i am cleared, it is all love, and it is all real.
I messed up frequently, always misinterpreting what they did and blaming them for my own issues. It’s not them – We should never blame our angels and guides for our own difficulties understanding them, or for our own shadows coming up – not that they are hurt or offended by it, but because we should take responsibility for our actions as it helps us grow.
Don’t give up. I’m sure we’ve all been there, feeling betrayed by something we mistake for happening with our guides, and if someone says they haven’t I wouldn’t believe them 😉 It’s a beautiful thing, just know that your own mind and past hurts can interfere, and I would recommend sorting through the issues, which have come up for you, that process in itself can bring you far.
Trust your angels,
I wish you luck, send you lots of blessings and light, hope this is of help to you, the process gets better.
But, you may still be thinking, after all of that, what if my spirit guide still is a demon? So here are some common ways to tell if you have a demon problem and some successful ways to get rid of any low frequency being. First of all, realize this isn’t the movies. Demons, bad spirits and posession are not like what hollywood would have you believe, and you certainly do not need a priest to do an exorcism.
As mentioned before here: http://stellarbeam.com/how-to-know-your-spirit-guide/ bad spirits are just like humans because they are passed on humans, that doesn’t necessarily mean they are evil. Some can be jerks, but they all have the capacity to have light in them just like humans do, in fact it is easier to transform a negative spirit into light, than it is to transform a negative human into light, but it is done in the same manner – with compassion. Just because you have the spiritual gift to speak to spirits does not mean you have to. You do not have to be some medium who helps ghosts get to the other side.
If you do plan on being around any low frequency being, be it alive humans or in the spiritual realms you need to know conflict management skills, be a loving, compassionate person who sees light and potential in all people, even minorities and you cannot be judgemental.
Reacting in fear, reacting in anger or defensiveness, is only going to harm them and lend them more power, and take away from your power. Being a spiritual warrior and lightworker requires being full of love at all times when being around people or things of lesser frequency.
Let me tell you some stories about Negative Beings. I have come to love them very much and I hope that you will learn to love them unconditionally as well.
One night I was walking in town when a drunk man came up to me shouting in profane, incoherant sentences and he held a knife close to my throat and threatened my life.
Another time, I went to the elemental realm and had the amazing experience to get to know a Satyr, the most savage, low frequency monster you would ever meet, and for good reason the devil is portrayed as a Satyr with hooves and antlers like a beast. He is the epidome of animal instinct, darkness, lust and murder. I found myself staring straight into the Minotaurs eyes, so black and full of rage and deep beneath that pure fear and his reaction to me was to charge me and stomp on me, just like humans react when they see something frightening or that disgusts them, like a mouse. He had no impulse control, he never did understand sarcasm (just like in the tale of the Satyr and the Lost Traveller) and he would overreact with extreme emotions. To him I was nothing but a terrifying, putrid mouse to be stomped on, and his fear and anger only increased when he realized I was not dying because I was there astrally. He became so confused.
And that is when I faced pure darkness and was flooded with complete love and joy like no other time in my life. I had never met anyone quite like him before and he made me feel such compassion. There was no room for me to be afraid, for my fear only increased his own. I had to be the one to disarm his reaction, and I did that by giving him a flower and saying that I came in peace and wanted to be friends and that I was very sorry for startling him and that I would try my best to never do that again. And I befriended the Satyr, and found out that beneath his evil he was also the kindest hearted being I had ever met.
I know that the only reason there is for low frequency things to get angry is when they feel scared and threatened. So I made sure to disarm him with love, acceptance and displaying to him that I was on his side and that he did not need to feel threatened by me.
I did the exact same thing for the man who tried to kill me on the street. I asked him what had happened to him, he told me someone hurt him and stole something from him now someone was going to pay for it and I sided with him and told him just how wrong it was for those people to have hurt them and that he was right for being angry and that they did deserve to pay for their actions. Then he knew I was on his side, and I continued to support him and gave him compassion.
I would tell you how to deal with murderous people, because it is exactly how you should deal with ALL low frequency beings be it in real life or the spiritual realms. The difference between real life and the spiritual realms is that in real life, someone in a murderous rage could actually kill you. In the spiritual realms nothing can harm you unless you give it the power to, but you will use the same tactics. It takes having a very level headed mind, not reacting and remaining calm, for one wrong move could cost you.
You have the right to choose not be around a low frequency person in general, but when they do get up in your face there are certain rules you should always abide to, if you care for your personal safety. So here they are:
Never ignore or walk away from an angry person: The stupidest advice is to walk away from an angry person. Obviously the schools of thought that encourage you to do this have never met people who become as angry and as violent as bulls who see nothing but red. As soon as you turn your back on a predator it will attack you. As soon as you try to escape a predator, it will attack you. When low frequency people and things get angry, they do not see anything in common sense. They probably won’t even remember what they are so angry at, other than they need a resolution. If you piss them off, they will settle on that resolution being that you need to be eradicated because you are the problem.
An angry person is just like a viscous bull that is terrified and threatened, so he just tries to attack or even kill everything in sight. This will be the lowest frequency you will ever deal with.
Be Quiet: In worst case scenarios, everything you say will just be mistaken and they will perceive everything you say as a threat, so don’t say anything at all until they calm down.
Don’t Move: Any quick movements will be seen as a major threat and will only encourage them to attack you.
Get Lower Than Them: It takes a bigger man to admit that he is vulnerable. But this is exactly what you have to do. In physical motions, you have to submit to the person that is about to attack you. You sort of have to play dead. A raging angry person will not strike you when you blend in with the floor and sit or lay down, because when you are at such a low frequency to be that angry, they are not thinking clearly, even their vision goes blurred, they only want to attack something that is a threat, and something that is smaller than them, is not a threat. They will most times not even see you if you get low to the ground and remove the threat you caused.
Do not have any facial expression: In worst case scenario, low frequency person will mistake all of your facial expressions and tone of voice to be ridiculing them. So instead, keep calm and have no facial expression at all.
Calm Down and Remain In Control: You should never, ever try to further interrogate or instigate an argument with an angry person. You should never get defensive and start shouting at them, or else they would harm you.
Be Compassionate and Side With Them Always: Even if you think what they did is wrong, you need to find it in your heart to love them regardless of their mistakes or else they will see right through you. Angry people will sense any lie or form of hostility that you give them. All they want is for someone to love them, they are getting defensive because they feel hurt and in most cases know that they committed an error, and do not not need someone telling them they are wrong. Doesn’t matter if it goes against your morals and values, you should still side with them even if that means saying, “you were right to hurt that person, they deserved it” because you have to put yourself in their shoes and make it known that you are on their side. There is no room for being unbiased here, you can’t tell them “I am on nobodies side” because no one in their right mind would ever trust somebody who is not on their side explicitly, especially not a low frequency person. In this case, you have to be their loyal friend, someone that would be there for them no matter what. Once you prove to them that you love them and are trustworthy, they will not feel the need to harm you at all and you will disarm any negativity that existed in them.
This is exactly the same for befriending your demons. When you do part work and pick out the darkest parts and shadows of your self, you are not supposed to hate those parts of yourself. Even the most evil, darkest part of yourself serves a purpose and is a good part that is trying to help you in some way or another. For example, let’s pretend you are an angry person. The part of you that lashes out at others protects you, because it loves you and does not want you to be harmed, it works for a good purpose. Once you can befriend these shadow parts, you will be able to convince them to use their good energy for other more beneficial purposes.
Maybe your shadow part bullies others because it feels you need protecting and you don’t anymore, maybe it still thinks you are a seven year old child who feels vulnerable – once you befriend these parts of yourself you can explain to them that you don’t really need that coping skill anymore because there is no one abusing you anymore, you are now an adult, you can take care of yourself. Your shadow part will freak out and will not like the fact that you do not need it anymore, so you would reassure it that, this is never the case, you will never “get rid of it” you are just giving it another job title, if it wants… Over the course of time as you become friends with these parts of yourself, you can give them all new jobs. You have to remember to give them voices and hear their side of things.
So remember that all low frequency beings have light in them. Dark = light.
When it comes to Demons, low frequency things that have no or very little compacity for light, they will never do anything that is in your best interest.
So forget the Demon theory if your spirit guide is nice one minute and mean the next, a real demon will never be nice to you at all.
They only care about encouraging you to do things that weaken you enough so that they can possess you and control your life and steal your power.
Possession and even spiritual attacks are the kind of thing that may be completely looked over despite how terrible they are. You could be posessed by a demon or by the doing of another human like with “voo doo” and have no idea, the only time you will realize anything is wrong with you is after having the thing that posessed you removed, because you literally take on its thoughts and actions and will be okay with the things you are doing. If you are posessed by something truly negative, it will make you harm yourself and you will enjoy it. You will feel like you are not in control of your body. You will feel disgusted around anything that is good for you, and will absolutely hate the idea of doing anything that is healthy.
You will not be able to go near Sage or any spiritual objects because the low frequency thing inside you is completely terrified of those things.
You have to understand how easy it is to mistake posession for something that could be explained by mental illness. It’s not like the movies, you aren’t going to be speaking in tongues, at least not always.
It is not good to blame your mental illness on possession. Just like always, it’s good to recognize the difference between the mind and what is real.
A certain degree of darkness can actually make you mentally ill. So if you were experimenting with the paranormal, without knowing how to protect yourself, you open yourself up for all kinds of bad things to experiment with you. So even in cases where legitimate paranormal experiences made the person mentally unwell, they still have to treat their symptoms exactly the same as any other mentally ill person does.
You can tell if there is a spiritual attack because you will often see the person in your mind who is doing it to you. There are alot of other ways that people use to tell when Bad Medicine is being used against them. I’ve heard some people notice signs in their body, for example their teeth hurt, it’s always different for the person.
For me, I can actually sense right away now whenever someone directs bad energy at me. In the past I’ve been utterly clueless to it. An old Mentor I had did a ceremony once where he asked my permission to keep my soul so that he could protect me always. He made it sound very nice, but little did I know I gave him power over me. And it turned out that he was not a nice man and he spiritually attacked me for years before I realized it was because of him.
The truth is no body can harm you, not even demons, unless you give them power over you. So you can easily look back to see if there were any moments in your life, like the one I had, where you gave your power to someone or something.
Never promise anyone your soul… it is yours and yours alone!
Getting rid of a Demon is easy and very simple because they are the lowest frequency things out there. Low frequency things are very weak and vibrate at a very slow vibration. They will be terrified of the light because they know even the smallest peice of light will evaporate them and turn them into light and when they are of low frequency they have the frame of mind that light is bad, and dark is good, they would rather suffer because that is familiar and enjoyable to them. We talked about cleansing methods in the other chapters already, but let’s go over it again quickly…
Here are some methods you can try:
- Burn Sage, Burn Cedar, Burn other forms of plants that cleanse
- Never burn sweet grass by itself, it’s known to be so sweet that it attracts all energies, even bad energies. You are supposed to use Sage before burning sweet grass.
- Imagine white light
- Clap your hands to use sound vibrations to clear
- Use music to cleanse
- Call upon the Angels or your Loving Spirt Guides to do it for you
- Make use of the 4 Elementals, Wind, Water, Earth and Fire – they are all cleansing, Fire being the most powerful form of cleansing there is.
For getting rid of possession you can try all of those things to cleanse yourself but you will find a force that makes you feel sick when going near them, you will not want to. You can trick the thing inside you by using the natural elements to cleanse instead if you feel really repulsed by the idea of going near sacred spiritual objects, like Sage.
Fire is the most powerful, and all you have to do is sit in front of a flame and ask it to cleanse you – it will. If you are really possessed you will feel a very noticable difference when the thing that possessed you is forced out. But you will be considerably weakened at this point, depending on how long the posession has gone on for also… you have to continously cleanse yourself like clockwork, you will be able to use more milder forms of cleansing afterwards. Even if you happen to be outside, remember to constantly ask the wind to cleanse you.
Do not be upset if it comes back into you, it will do everything in its power to get back to you, so you have to fight it, not with anger or resentment, but with love and purity. Surround it with love, this may be difficult if you are afraid of it. Do not be afraid.
What you have to do is strengthen your confidence, heal your damaged soul and slowly build up your immunity to it again. It is very simple. Soon enough you will be strong again and should always remember to never give your power away again.
Really what it comes down to in the end is it doesn’t matter if you have a demon, or if it’s just your thoughts, everything is dealt with in the same way – with love and compassion.